purseSunol reespoNsibilatee

Isn’t it interesting how we want to take on another’s burden while totally ignoring our own? If this is getting too hot, step away for a minute…come back when you’re ready to accept all that is your obligation–only. Can’t touch this! We stand tall with commentary when referencing something that has absolutely nothing to doContinue reading “purseSunol reespoNsibilatee”

shoQue topiX

There are some things in this life that are not so comfortable to broach. Rather than discuss, we skirt around them. When we realize all are consumed with being ill at ease, a new topic will surface. The elephant in the room continues to advance while the distressing subject recedes the same space. Recognizing thatContinue reading “shoQue topiX”

kryMe 4 dUin mE tHyme?

Taking time for oneself is quite the hot topic these days. What some may not realize is this is what keeps us going. Do for you! Selfish and selfless all rolled in one. We’re all running around! Have the full plate! Multitasking! Make it stop!! So many say they feel guilty when taking a blockContinue reading “kryMe 4 dUin mE tHyme?”

oPin to sugJestchuns

Often when a topic is discussed, so many have opinions, a different way to do it or other input that is not requested or asked for. It’s interesting that people have so much to say when no inquiry is made, however, when asked if there are any questions in a setting all you get isContinue reading “oPin to sugJestchuns”

Klam up and KlAmp down

You ever notice that when someone claims they have a lot to say on a topic, they will clam right up when asked about it? This is one way to quiet some folks. I can recall seeing this very thing recently on a program. We often have a lot to say when conversing with thoseContinue reading “Klam up and KlAmp down”

I beGg to Defer!

‘Likeminded’. ‘We think alike’. ‘I agree’. These are the terms that do not afford growth. There is nothing wrong with being in aligned with another on a topic. The problem arises when the agreement is just to keep the exchange going, or if no other view of the issue is considered. We are all individuals,Continue reading “I beGg to Defer!”

Behind the Seen

Often we watch a television show, attend a concert, go to the movies for the main attraction. The star of the show. Talking with my husband, he made a great point about this topic. I, as my grandmother would say, got to “thinking about that thing”. The true ‘star’ or the ‘power person’ is actuallyContinue reading “Behind the Seen”

Don’t Lessen the Lesson

When circumstances occur in life, some are quick to say how they would have done this or that differently. I was talking with my sister the other day, and this topic was brought up. We were saying how people want to discount what is to be learned with events that happen. Life is about lessonsContinue reading “Don’t Lessen the Lesson”