Closure means different things to different people. We sometimes want to hear certain words or phrases from others in order for them to “explain themselves”! To seal the conclusion if you will! If the words are not spoken or action not done, the finality is mute! Truth is: no explanation needed! Period! When a relationshipContinue reading “whArning sYgnz”
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U phIrst
Our days are filled with “to do” lists! Most of the things on the list are for other people. Can I get a ‘amen’? It’s time to get selfish and put yourself at the top of that list. Show yourself some love. Take you to lunch. Get a manicure or pedicure…why not both?! Read aContinue reading “U phIrst”
kuMphort
When you think of comfort, how does that make you feel? Pretty good, huh? Cozy is safety! While in our comfort zone, that is considered a safe space. Comfort is complacency. That is not where you should aspire to be. This is stagnation. Who wants to budge when feeling ‘snug as a bug in aContinue reading “kuMphort”
iTz Uh daYte
There are so many things in life we celebrate! Some things are annual, and we can literally put a pin in the calendar for the event. Things like birthdays, anniversaries, Mother’s/Father’s Day, holidays, etc. Each of these times mean something uniquely amazing to the individual. Some people make a big deal out of these specialContinue reading “iTz Uh daYte”
phrEshin uP
The New Year brings novel thoughts and opportunities! We want to bury our old habits as if they never existed. This is not the repair! Own your past. Accept it! Embrace it! Now, let’s move on. Behaving as if our former self never was only compounds the destruction when attempting to re-construct! You see, ifContinue reading “phrEshin uP”
deWly knOated
Reminders are set all the time from the time we wake up until our head hits the pillow at night. We have spaces on our devices to help us stay organized in this manner. Individuals constantly make notes in order to recall events in our life. Our world is so hectic that even birthdays ofContinue reading “deWly knOated”
kNue vUwE
As the year 2025 comes to a close, many individuals start “re-assigning” goals. Yes, a number of people regift, regurgitate, repeat and recycle the same stale goals they have set for the past 5 or more years prior. We reside in a world of “gonna“. We are lying in wait like an animal ready toContinue reading “kNue vUwE”
sKaire tActyc
Fear! I recently read that this is a “waste of air”. This phrase stopped me in my scared tracks! Being stuck is justification for indefinite pause! We make rationalizations with so many scenarios (what the what) of things that could happen. Some of these things are extremely far-fetched. We sit on those until we realizeContinue reading “sKaire tActyc”
staiY’n knUwtryl
In life, we go through so many unique situations. How these times are viewed says a lot about how we will move forward in them. There are moments when individuals are unsure which direction to go in. This is when an instant decision will be made. Some will advance; while still some will step back.Continue reading “staiY’n knUwtryl”
trYe fayLe
Many of us stay stuck in life due to lack of effort. The mere thought of attempting a task places a fear so deep, it stops us in our tracks. You see, trying to do something never before set out to do is the scariest thing in this world for so many individuals…myself included. TryContinue reading “trYe fayLe”