dEtore De fraWnce

We sometimes have to take alternate routes in getting where we should be. It can be frustrating, time-consuming, and perhaps difficult. What it really is…’is what it is’. Things occur in the manner in which they are supposed to. My path isn’t yours and vice versa. Our path in this life is as individual asContinue reading “dEtore De fraWnce”

drAin on My paRaid

When one individual let’s another dampen their spirit, bring them down, lessen their happiness, annihilate their joy…it is said the person ‘rained on their parade’. The unfavorable energy that is allowed into your space is not the other persons’ doing, it is yours. Do you know we make or break the manner in which weContinue reading “drAin on My paRaid”

I beGg to Defer!

‘Likeminded’. ‘We think alike’. ‘I agree’. These are the terms that do not afford growth. There is nothing wrong with being in aligned with another on a topic. The problem arises when the agreement is just to keep the exchange going, or if no other view of the issue is considered. We are all individuals,Continue reading “I beGg to Defer!”

pRess reLease 2 oWn

When engaged in conversation with some people, they start going on and on about a situation with another person. You then wonder, ‘what in the world are they talking about?’ They proceed to say, ‘”ooh wee, chile, I just had to vent”. This type of acquittal is self therapy, believe it or not. You see,Continue reading “pRess reLease 2 oWn”

heArt and Sold

Getting to the very core of a situation best helps us to understand and handle it accordingly. You have to be willing to go ‘all in’. When an individual gives something their all, that really speaks. Each circumstance in our world is uniquely its own. Every condition requires the art of distinguishing the rarity andContinue reading “heArt and Sold”

DamAged GaudSend

Wounded! Destructed! Decrease in ‘value’! This is what some have reduced themselves to believe and how certain individuals view some humans. De-humanizing others only because of the journey that was traveled is simply not right. No one else can pave another persons’ road. Until or unless you’ve taken a single step in their self-designated ‘shoes’…don’tContinue reading “DamAged GaudSend”

Stare Wail

‘What you see ain’t what you see’. This is a saying that was told to me by a friend many years ago. Things simply are not what they appear at times. ‘Why are they staring at me?’ Someone could think another person was looking at them; and the other person was in deep thought andContinue reading “Stare Wail”

Pace Maker

There is a point and time when we begin different things in life. Outside sources are saying, ‘go faster’, ‘I would’ve been finished long time ago’, ‘you’re doing it all wrong’. Point is, when we do a number of things, we have to go at our individual pace. No one can force our comfort inContinue reading “Pace Maker”

Missed Demeanor

We sometimes don’t see what is right in front of us. The behavior of an individual can be overshadowed by other facets. This could be intentional or unintentional. Mannerisms can be tricky. What someone says reveals one thing, while their demeanor may something entirely different. If you’re not tuned in, you could miss out!